I AM A GROWN-A WOMAN! There, I said it LOL! I’ve learned some powerful, valuable lessons over this lifetime. Here are a few that stick with me:
1. Honestly…a man could care less about your problems – pray and duke it out with God
2. A happy confident woman is highly sought after; a needy woman is…F&*#$D!! – literally.
3. Believe him when he says, “I am not looking for a commitment” MANSLATION: I just want sex.
4. Keep your “girls” out of your relationship business; she will not hesitate to test him out – and he will return the favor (an oldie but goodie)
5. Refrain from trying to convince a man you are “the one”, especially if he is already married, in a relationship, or has a friend(s) with benefits.
6. A man don’t stay nowhere he don’t want to be (i.e. “I would leave, but…”)
7. If you agree to your place in the “rotation”, accept that’s where you’ll always be…
8. STANDARDS…WORK!!!! Up front!!
9. What you see is what you get! (Flip Wilson, RIP).
10. Let the man come after you (Dad, RIP).
11. One night rarely turns into forever…
Just a few grown-a woman lessons learned, practiced, and worked!!